Borrow and pay up-They are not supposed to leave it.

"hi, please I need some money like four thousand, I'll pay back by the end of the month"....

a phrase we all say when we are in urgent need of money.

while it is wonderful to use, it is more wonderful to honour it.

People say they never give money that they cannot let go of...

while that is a proactive move, it also goes a long way to emphasize the lack of trust that exists in the mind of those who lend to those who borrow.

Returning money borrowed builds an atmosphere of trust between you and your lender.

But somehow, because the lender is a family member or a close friend we allow for entitlement to creep in and think

"it's small they should leave it",

and because thoughts become actions we end up not paying back...

That's how trust breaks and that's how our lenders say they never have even after you said you'd pay back.